You may be weird. Therefore, one trick to find love, is seeking out a guy who will not just bear your oddness. He will just love you for it.
Fortunately, a number of weird things people do are totally and completely lovable.
1. The way you express your fear
When you get scared, sometimes it is rational and other times it is irrational. However, he gets fascinated that someone can remain strong during the serious times in life and so feared while it comes to no matter or little things, like spiders. Or basically something that is crawly and/or creepy. He will feel happy being the one to save you from the spider by killing it.